Familiar?! I wrote a piece for @theatlantic about numerous studies that found women struggle w sexual boredom/low desire in longer-term exclusive hetero partnerships sooner and more often than men do. In the aggregate, many experts have told us, men are better at wanting what they already have while women struggle more with it. Often women who think they no longer like sex are simply struggling with a need for variety, novelty, and adventure that we have been taught MEN eapecially “need.” There are plenty of solutions, and the first is to get real about women and desire LINK IN BIO 💓💓💓 #sexed #sexpositive #feminism #monogamy #CNM #relationships NB My team deletes/ blocks disrespectful/hostile/condescending/uncivil comments and commenters so this IG feed remains a site of civil discussion, support, and disagreement. Thank you.
Self love, my Galentines 💓💕. Check out this GIVEAWAY @glowmaven to win all this good stuff. Pleasure is your right 💓💕💓💕 #valentinesday #galentinesday #selfcare #sexed #sexpositive #untruethebook #ownyourglow
Happy Valentines Day to all!! Enjoy! 💓💓💓💓💓#UNTRUEthebook #valentinesday #galentinesday #austin #truesexandwildlove
Dear Pretties Who Hate the Patriarchy: what’s your bedroom like? Peaceful? Soothing? Messy? Neat? It matters. For better rest and better sex. My friend @glowmaven tells me our bedrooms should be a sanctuary...quiet, soothing colors, relaxing music, and diffused scents like lavender, ylang-ylang, geranium, and sandalwood (if you like that kind of thing) to help you feel less stressed and more sexy. No computers or phones in bed—the blue light stimulates your brain (not in a good way) which makes it harder to get a good night’s sleep. Plus it’s hard to connect with your own body or your partner’s with a device in your hand, just saying. I try to keep my bedroom neat bc clutter stresses me out. Sadly for me, I don’t have any magazines or books there, because I am a writer and magazines and books in my bedroom would make me think about work. I have a light colored silk rug bc I want even my feet to feel indulged and decadent in my bedroom. I also hung this beautiful painting to remind me to be a creature of pleasure... #untruethebook #sexpositive #selfcare