A bad day today. Stormed out of rhetorics class, choked by the lump in my throat, foretelling the tears soon streaming down my face. I felt too proud to let my class see me crying. Was it that in the discussion about gender, there only was one other woman but me, who dared saying a line against a quire of male voices? Or was it that quire of male voices not even noticing that very obscene of female voices daring to dive into this discussion? Was it that feminist discourse got blamed for not speaking in normal understandable terms, even though we constantly try to do just that by not even mentioning words such as postcolonialism, or how problematic and excluding it is, that the discussion about gender is constantly reduced to men and women? Or was it my opponents answer, upon my explanation for the reason to have gender quotas in government? I argued that it would help us break the glass ceilings, preventing women from getting posts such as finance minister. The post that even in Denmark was graced by a woman only once for less than a year.(!!!) He asked me in return “Well do you want to have economical growth, or do you want to have gender equality?”. It was all of that, and the pulsing feeling of being stupid. Stupid to choose the role of the crazy screaming woman scorned, for it was way easier to fight, when all that I fought for was my right to be pretty and naked. Today, again, I am feeling stupid for thinking my opinion matters and for believing that a career of anything else than a woman looking fuckable, is open to me. But now I am home, and I can cry out here. This too shall pass.
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My university look today, or how to style an evening dress for daytime. Also remembrer, that today is #equalpayday in Denmark. From today and for the rest of the year women work for free. ♧ I'm wearing @theprettydress ♤
My pointing finger deserves a video of it's own.🤣 🎬 By @rolf__rolf #DEBATDRONNINGEN
#DEBATDRONNINGEN 🤣🤣 Tak til @rolf__rolf for at have klippet det sammen. Tak til #annalibak og @zamani_88 for at have tålmodighed og høre på mig mens jeg laver alle de lyde 🧡.
Jeg ruller vinduet ned og lader den bidende friske frost ind i den gamle stinkende bil. Tinnitus ringer i venstre øre efter al den portvin. Jeg er 15 og er lige blevet kørt tilbage til mit kollegieværelse af den 36-årige mand, som for en time siden har udnyttet min krop. ~Jeg har skrevet et nyt indlæg for Extra Bladet om klamme ældre herrer, grooming og Drake. Link i bio ⬆️~
[Se mig i Debatten på DR2 20.00 i aften!] About 4 years ago, in a candid conversation with my friend we exchanged our visions of where we see ourselves in 5 years. She told me, that she sees herself traveling the world. I told her, that I envision myself being a writer, standing in the evening light of a TV-show hosted by @clement_kjersgaard, because that's where I imagined acomplished people belong. At that point I haven't published anything, were affraid to rely on anything else but my looks to come through in life, and it all seemed as something almost too grand to ever come true. Tonight that vision is about to turn into reality. I don't know if I would be able to see this Debatten without breaking down in tears - because I wanted it so bad and envisioned it for so long. But one thing is for sure - after tonight, it's time to make new visualisations, because thoughts do become reality.
Ikea needs to fire misogonystic employes! I stand here amongst my Ikea furniture and can't believe that a true woman-hater can continue being in charge of your marketing in Russia, @ikeasverige. A recap of what has been happening in Ikea Russia in the last couple of weeks: In a marketing text for Ikea, a woman has been compared to a dog, and advised for how to make up for her scratching of his car or chewing his slippers. To make up for her mischiefs she is therefore advised to cook his favorite pancakes and so on. Of though a lot of people thought it was funny, the complaints got to Ikeas headquarters, who therefore a week later apologized on radio and removed the post. However, the person in charge of their Social Media Marketing didn’t leave anyone wondering of his true misogynistic views and made a glorious post on his own profile about it in deed being him, who wrote that post. Thereafter, he ensured everyone in him still overseeing @ikea_rus ’s SMM, supplying that statement with the remark “that he had swirled the feminists and their opinions on his dick”. Well done, Ikea, you nailed the art of apology, now you have to learn how to take action. Surely there must be others who will be able to deal with your SoMe. I’ve heard that women can type too.