#caturday in the milky way 🐈
#MeToo - In my new blogpost I share the experience of being sexually violated and feeling ashamed of that. This intense feeling of shame is the reason why the majority of unwanted sexual experiences are held secret by the victims. Because when you come out with stories like mine, you extend your suffering. One is not only supposed to fight against the rapist whilst being raped, but with the whole society afterwards, that more than willingly doubts the victim. Were your clothes revealing? Was your behavior flirtatious? Why were you alone with a man in an apartment? Why didn’t YOU protect yourself? Whilst only one question is in order, and it is HIM who should be answering it: Why didn’t you take a “NO” for a “NO”?! Feminists are often blamed to hate men or to discriminate men. However, it is by asking the victim questions like that, one reveals the discriminative view on men. One is simply saying that a rape is to be expected from a man. Because a man is a wild untamed beast, who cannot control himself and must rape everything that is left alone with him in a room. He automatically rapes everything that wears revealing clothes, and has no self-control what so ever. He also has no concern for any one’s feelings or wishes but his own. It’s in his nature. That is an assumption I refuse to make. In my life I, thanks God, met enough men who respected me, whom I could safely stay in the same room alone with, and who wouldn’t consider having sex with my body unless I also wanted it. Therefore, I would rather draw a conclusion that being a rapist is a man’s choice, not all men’s nature. ⬆️ Link is in the bio⬆️ #feminism
Her love for bob is strong 😻 #brelfie #breastfeeding
#caturday on a Sunday
2 weeks #postpartum. Tried to go back to studying today and read the literature I'm suppose to before monday. Fell asleep about 5 times. Maybe it's just me being sleep deprived, but it seems that kabbalah & throne mystisism are way less interresting subjects then they sound to be.
#caturday morning & 10 days #postpartum. 🐈 P.S. Lyt til vores program #LUDERMANIFESTET lige om lidt kl 16.30 på p1, denne gang om bryster, botox og skønhedshykleri
5 days postpartum. My body sure doesn’t look today like it did before this pregnancy, and in between of births of my two daughters (yes, I do have an 11-year-old daughter as well). However, I don’t think this body should be hidden or deemed less esthetical. There is beauty in every stage of life, and being a new mom is such a rare occasion, that is more than anything worth commemorating. Instagram is a celebration of what in western culture is viewed as “womanly” curves – that is big boobs, thin waist and wide firm hips and butt. A new-mom body is however no less ''womanly'', no less esthetical and deserves to be unapologetically celebrated no less than the hourglass figure.
She is here ❤
Aaaaand I'm still preggo out here. The little diva insists on comming fashionably late. #41weeks